What is the Something You CAN Do?

I am only one, but still I am one. I cannot do everything, but still I can do something; and because I cannot do everything, I will not refuse to do something that I can do.
— Helen Keller
what’s in your “tool box”? Can you paint, write encouraging cards, grow vegetables, bake, play an instrument?

what’s in your “tool box”? Can you paint, write encouraging cards, grow vegetables, bake, play an instrument?

I was very young when I learned about the power of the creative arts to stir and influence the hearts of people. At age four, my parents asked my full blood Creek babysitter to teach me how to sign the Lord’s Prayer in Native American Sign Language. I performed it at half-time of the homecoming football game at Riverside Indian Boarding School. Later my parents would take me to Native churches to sign the song and it never failed to move much of the congregation to tears. I am in awe when I think about how God’s plan for my life to inspire and motivate others to pray was laid out even before I was born.

Only He knew that I would grow up to have a daughter who was deaf, and that I would teach her to sign the same song. That I would publish her story and that her message of hope would touch millions around the world. Maegan was deaf and terminally ill, but it did not stop her from serving others and spreading hope.

Vanessa means “Butterfly” and this image reminds me that we can bring beauty and hope even in the midst of brokenness.

Vanessa means “Butterfly” and this image reminds me that we can bring beauty and hope even in the midst of brokenness.

Jeff and I were residence hall directors at a college dorm that also housed the blind students on campus. Maegan was drawn to them and they to her, and it was always quite the interpreting experience. The blind student would talk to her and I would sign what he said. Then she would sign back and I would voice what she signed. And heaven forbid that we should walk into the lounge when a movie was on.

Blind students: “What’s happening now?” (I voice what is happening on screen)

Maegan: What did they say? (Sign to Maegan audio on movie and commentary by blind students)

Blind students: “Is that Maegan? What’s she signing?” Oy.

She loved to tease them. Once she was carving pumpkins with the resident assistants when Brent and his dog came in. He heard Maegan and reached out to shake her hand. She giggled and put a handful of pumpkin goop in his hand!

One of my favorite stories, though, is the time she and I walked into the residence hall lounge and saw Eddie drinking a strawberry soda. Maegan signed to me, “ask him how he knows which button to push on the pop machine since he can’t see.” I asked and he replied, “I don’t know, I just push one and take whatever I get.” Maegan was stunned by this because her favorite drink was Dr. Pepper. From that day on, she was relentless. It was certainly a lesson in intercession because she continued to petition the one who could do something about it (me) until finally I had braille labels placed on the soda machine buttons.

Maegan said that her main purpose was “to teach people about love and about Jesus”.

Maegan said that her main purpose was “to teach people about love and about Jesus”.

That incident taught me several things, but the main thing I learned was that no matter what challenges you are facing or how much you are hurting, it always helps to look around and ask how you can be a blessing to someone else. It’s one of those “opposite-world” Kingdom principles. You break the power of lack and greed by giving. You break the power of anger and bitterness by choosing to forgive. And you break the power of despair and hopelessness by offering hope and help to someone else.

Recently I was at the pool at our apartment and was drawn into a conversation with some neighbors. They had a one year old daughter and the mother was frustrated because her daughter was fussing but she didn’t know why. Was the concrete too hot? Was she tired or hungry?

I started talking with her about Baby Sign Language and the next day both dad and mom were encouraging me to teach an online Baby Sign course. To be honest, I could tell from our first conversation that we had opposing political views. But we chose to focus on what we could agree on—how we could help their beautiful daughter express her needs and communicate with her parents.

I created the Baby Sign Course so that I could help my new friends, but also so that I could use my own experience and gifts to spread some joy and hope to other families. It was the “something I could do” in the midst of these uncertain times. My neighbors helped to promote the course and now we are developing a beautiful friendship through the common goal of teaching their baby to sign.

You can enroll in the Baby Sign Language Course here: https://purposed-heart.teachable.com/p/baby-sign-language

You can enroll in the Baby Sign Language Course here: https://purposed-heart.teachable.com/p/baby-sign-language


A few years ago, I watched a short film that moved me deeply. You can look it up by googling “Isabelle’s Garden Sundance Festival” or watch it here. It is a story of how a little Choctaw girl in southeast Oklahoma battles the spirit of poverty by growing a garden and sharing the vegetables with her people. She writes encouraging words in Choctaw on the baskets she delivers, and because she chooses to do the one thing she CAN do, an entire community is nourished in body and spirit.

Short film video by Jeffery Palmer. You can watch it here.

Short film video by Jeffery Palmer. You can watch it here.


But when God, who set me apart from my mother’s womb and called me by his grace, was pleased to reveal his Son in me so that I might preach him among the Gentiles. . .
— Galatians 1:15-16

What about you? What is your “one thing” that you can do to meet someone’s need or brighten someone’s day this month? Do you bake? Crochet? Paint? Sew? Write poems or encouraging cards? In Galatians 1:15-16, Paul said that God revealed Jesus to him so that he might “preach” or express Him to others. Paul used words. What will you use?

The Real Snow White Knows Sign Language

He who goes out weeping, carrying seed for sowing, will certainly come again with joy, carrying his sheaves.—Ps. 126:6“I want to go see Mickey Mouse and the REAL Snow White,” Maegan signed while I interpreted for the Make A Wish representative in the summer of 1994….They had called in a woman who knew sign language to help with the meeting, so they could be sure that it was truly Maegan’s wish and not ours. It was hard to imagine that a parent would lie or hijack their child’s dying wish, but it was pretty clear to everyone that day what Maegan’s true desires were, as she cupped both hands on top of her head to imitate Mickey’s ears. Her eyes sparkled with hope and soon we were on our way.It would be a magnificent week that we would never forget. We stayed in a lovely cottage at Give Kids the World, a non-profit resort that provides week-long, cost-free vacations to critically ill children and their families. We received the “royal treatment”, with tickets to all the theme parks and fun restaurants at Disney’s Magic Kingdom, Universal studios and Sea World. Maegan wore a button that alerted park employees that she was a “special guest.” As soon as someone would see her button, we would be ushered through a private passageway to the front of every ride line. We would also be invited to go backstage and meet the characters at every show. I’ll never forget the look on Maegan’s face when she realized Fievel was writing her name in the autograph book. “He KNOWS MY NAME!” she signed excitedly and I didn’t have the heart to tell her that he had read her button. And then there was the day I heard shrieking from across the room, as Maegan came running toward me, arms flailing. “MOM! The REAL. SNOW. WHITE. KNOWS. SIGN. LANGUAGE!”Sure enough, the beautiful princess signed, “My name is Snow White. I live in the Magic Kingdom.” I don’t think Maegan’s feet touched the ground the whole week. And what a gift to have a break from the “real life” of IV’s, high fevers and hospital stays. I thank God she felt healthy that week, as I noticed several of the other children did not feel as well.I spent time back then in the small chapel, praying for Maegan, for us and the other families. As amazing as the resort was, you could not help but notice the heaviness each family carried, and the weariness in their eyes. I wept for them and for us, for the uncertainty of the days ahead.On the last day, Maegan wrote her name on a star that they would place in the castle of miracles. Maegan lived for two more years after that trip, and I always wondered if we would ever be able to return. In the past 30 years, there have been thousands of stars placed in the castle, but on a recent trip back there, the staff members helped us find Maegan’s star. We showed Savannah around, told stories, met some of the children and again went into the chapel to pray for strength, healing and hope for the brave families battling illness both there and back home.I opened up the Bible that was near the altar, and it fell to this passage from Psalm 126… “They that sow in tears shall reap in joy. He that goeth forth and weepeth, bearing precious seed, shall doubtless come again with rejoicing, bringing his sheaves with him.” When you study it out, the picture is that of the farmer, carrying “precious seed” to the earth, weeping because he is weary, and knows not what will become of the seed once he releases it. The Hebrew word for “bearing” is “nasa”, which means “endure” and to “look up”. The farmer knows not what will become of the seed, but he must “look up” and trust God will bless it and multiply it back to him.When Maegan died, God spoke to my heart, “Unless a grain of wheat falls into the ground and dies, it cannot produce a harvest.” Since her death, millions have been touched through her faith God through articles and posts. Now I am working with an editor to have a book published! Part of the “harvest” comes from teaching young people to find their purpose as she did. You take part in “sowing” through partnership and you will reap!What else could you “sow”? Time in service or mentoring someone? Volunteering at a place like Give Kids the World or a hospital? Maybe you feel like something has been “taken” from you, whether it is in loss of finances or friendship or health. Consider “sowing” it instead. It’s okay to weep and to be uncertain of the future, just as we were years ago. But let your tears water the soil of your heart, as you pray and lift up your eyes to the only One who can bring Growth. He KNOWS YOUR NAME!! Watch for His “Sign Language” and trust Him for a great harvest.